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My family is expanding....

My family is expanding! 

But not in the way you might think.


It's a boy and he has my whole face.  💙 

He's super sweet and quite handsome if I do say so myself.

No, no, I'm still single.

No, no, I didn't touch anyone.

No, no, I'm not currently pregnant. 

No, no, I didn't leave Chicago because I was pregnant. 

We have talked about this... I am allergic to children well, at least my uterus is. LOL

Someone was pregnant long ago and now I have a whole brother. He's not a baby at all. In fact, he's 48.  He's about 10 years older than me and we look just alike. Or at least I think so.

I have talked about this a few times, how I grew up without much family. How I didn't know my parents really. How I always felt like I had family out there. It was like this soul longing, like part of me was missing. Through ancestry, over the last 10 years or so, I found 3 of them. There might be more... I mean only God knows. 

He lives in Orlando, Florida. He grew up in the South and he has the Southern charm so, he's not like the rest of these Chicago men I have had the pleasure of meeting. I have nieces and nephews. Did someone say Disney World with my siblings, nieces, and nephews? YES! PLEASE! He's really tall like our father and as a result I had to give up my title as the tallest sibling. He's a Gemini and I'm a Libra with a Gemini rising so we get along fabulously. 

I thought I would share some good news in my life. 

What do you think? Do we look alike?

When I finally get to meet him formally, which you like me to share the experience?





Comments

  1. UnknownMarch 30, 2021 at 3:15 PM

    Beautiful story ❤

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  2. AnonymousMarch 30, 2021 at 3:27 PM

    Life has away of blooming and renewing just when we need it !!! Love it ❤💛💚💙

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  3. AnonymousMarch 30, 2021 at 3:27 PM

    Life has away of blooming and renewing just when we need it !!! Love it 💙💚💛❤

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  4. Mr PewPewApril 8, 2021 at 11:39 PM

    👏🏽 👏🏽 Family can be wonderful ❤️it

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